singles
A place for Christian singles...
Round 1 FIGHT! lol So in short I think men want to be needed, respected and admired... and women want to be loved and feel protect/safe/secure? Really the question should be what G-d wants? I'l...
I know this board is shutting down soon so I don't know how many responses I'll get to this but I want to share what I'm going through and see if anyone can help me. So I'm 31 years...
I recently had a conversation with a friend of mine at church who is familiar with my situation and the pain I'm going through. I mentioned that that I had been searching for a wife using Chris...
After discussing marraige with a friend of mine.... I am realizing that I still feel like I dont want to be married, but I want to be single and love Jesus for my whole life. Does it sound like Im ...
Song of Solomon Pickup Lines!
How long have you been waiting to get married?
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by kytriya on 10/31/10
I have a house. My exwife has a house. Money for both of us is tight and one day we started adding up all the $ we would save if we were remarried, wow! She said--"we have enough love between t...
I'm just wondering, do the other single people have friends, or are you like me and have no friends outside of immediate family members, or people with whom you cannot speak face-to-face (like ...
So I'm forever the same height I was in 8th grade (genetically there wasn't much room for being tall haha) A comment a friend (that I hadn't seen since 2nd grade) made on facebook got m...
Okay, here is my dealio. I'm a 23 year old, young woman who has decided to wait until marriage to have sex. I've made this decision a long time ago, when I was 16. It is something that I wi...
Just wondering, have any of you ever made any good friendships on a site like this?...not really talking of anything else romantic or anything, because I don't really believe in matchmaking sit...
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by Manchua on 09/26/10
I have a guy friend, and he is very touchy-feely. I'm just wondering if this is ok. Only, he touches my arm lightly, or my back, and when we were sitting at a table in church with lots of peopl...
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by free_as_a_bird on 09/08/10
Hi everyone! I recently had an experience which made me realise just how much I want a loving relationship to form part of my life and how difficult I have really found spending all of these years ...
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by free_as_a_bird on 09/08/10
After discussing marraige with a friend of mine.... I am realizing that I still feel like I dont want to be married, but I want to be single and love Jesus for my whole life. Does it sound like Im ...
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Hi everyone. I had an idea while coming away from church today. Our pastor's message was on divorce and on the sanctity of marriage. Needless to say, thoughts of my singleness came to mind. I t...
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by free_as_a_bird on 09/02/10
So I was making a list of things I want to promise my future husband. Thought I’d share it with you guys. Feel free to share yours too, if any of you have any for your future spouses. Here’s what I...
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by free_as_a_bird on 08/19/10
Lately the story of Hannah in I Samuel 1 has been a means through which God has given me great comfort related to the desire of my heart (since I'm posting this on the singles site--you can pro...
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by lingonberrydude on 07/21/10
Okay so this is just random nonsense that happened to be floating around in my mind tonight! I've never had much in the way of positive physical touch from friends and family (and by physical t...
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by free_as_a_bird on 07/11/10
I'm thinking about purity. Total purity in the heart and mind and body. Maybe sometimes, (I'm speaking for the women here), we are waiting, for a handsome, kind, generous, man, to complete ...
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by lingonberrydude on 06/30/10
When pursuing someone for a date, who should make the first move, the man or the woman?
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by lingonberrydude on 05/19/10
My engagement and relationship ended a short time ago. My parents forbid me to even talk to him because he was emotionally abusive. I was also co-dependant, having premarital sex, and compromising ...
Oxymoron...can Single people actually have a mid-life crisis? I thought only people who married and had affairs had these things. No, those are the non-believers, or Beleivers who succumbed to temp...
I wonder: how long will I be waiting for another significant other because I like men that are out of my league? I've noticed that men in Church have much higher standards than men out in the w...
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by Hawkwing74 on 04/14/10
I thought this article was spot on and explained a lot. What is your reaction?
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by dramaqueen on 03/29/10
Alright, so I know this is the singles forum, but it seemed the best place to put this. I hope you guys can give me some advice or just..."listen"(read). I guess this is more of a vent. And...
Little Boy's Explanation of God THIS IS FABULOUS!!! It was written by an 8-year-old named Danny Dutton, who lives in Chula Vista , CA . He wrote it for his third grade homework assignment, to &...
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by eagleswings on 03/12/10
As someone who is also saving my first kiss for my husband on my wedding day, I thought this video was adorable... The pastor's line was hilarious: "Well...practice makes perfect!!" Hah...
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by LadyInWaiting on 03/10/10
Ok so this is a common problem for guys and may even be discussed on here elsewhere but it is something I have never found a good solution for. I would specifically appreciate female input. How doe...
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by free_as_a_bird on 03/07/10
Over the past week I have been hanging out with a Christian guy friend. We call each other bro and sis (he's 23, I'm 27). We spent a lot of time praying alone in my car. Doing spiritual war...
So I watched this movie last night, “He’s Just Not That Into You”. I won’t recommend it because there was a LOT of stuff in it that I didn’t care for…one of them was that it’s big on promoting gays...
What kind of love do you need to marry someone? I know all about the eros, phileo, agape types but is there a marriage love that must be present before one marries. Can you lose it? Can you get it ...
Hello all! So, yesterday I got home from church did some homework, and then started being my hopeless romantic self and praying to God for patience in waiting on His timing of getting married and a...
Does anyone else who's a virgin have anxiety about the wedding night? Is there any way to prepare? Are there any resources out there (books, etc) that give a Christian perspective on what to ex...
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by God_is_good on 01/26/10
I am looking for a place to live for this summer in Grand Rapids. I'm having a hard time finding an apartment and a lot of the people in houses looking for someone to share the rent with them a...
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by sethjohnson on 01/17/10
The exceptions are exceptions... sometimes people are born in certain environments that change them and make them exceptions... I have a few friend girls that are tomboys and I've talked to the...
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by JJ4Christ1990 on 01/17/10
...to be a man. In reading a book about the science of gender I see this: “Just ask men and women how often they think about sex. What you find in a large population is that the average for men is ...
Hello I just want to introduce myself for now. I am a 49 year old divorced male. But I do have some health issues so Im really only looking for christian friends for now. So if anyone wants to talk...
I love women, they're wonderful creatures :3 hell I like women so much that if I could marry more then one, I would, out of love honest. I can name a handful of girls but they might possibly st...
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by free_as_a_bird on 01/03/10
I've been inspired by the "wowee" thread to see what you guys think of the opposite. What is the worst thing that turns you off?...not necessarily the FIRST thing that turns you off, be...
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by AllyOops on 01/02/10
Stuff like this really IRKS me. We single people have been waiting a very long time to be married...and it annoys the living daylights out of us when married people gripe and complain about their ...
How are you doing? The holidays are coming,memories appear, and feelings are tender. Prepared? I've been divorced for about 1 year. I've healed some. Yesterday I found out another couple th...
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by lovedbyGod8 on 12/23/09
I'm in a girly talk kinda mood For me, it's either the eyes or outgoing personality that strike me silly. What about you all? Hmmmmmmmmm?
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by Calmador on 12/21/09
Les and Leslie Parrot suggest having a list of 10 must haves for your future spouse and holding up candidates to meet at LEAST 9/10. They said that in their findings/career people that do this don&...
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by Calmador on 12/21/09
With a catch like this running around in my own STATE, I have the audacity to question why I'm still single?! Shocker.
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by MissKsMum on 12/11/09
Would you? Just curious.
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by MissKsMum on 12/11/09
And if so, how did it turn out? In my experience, I have gone to 3 Christian dating sites: Christianmingle Jcmatch and Eharmony. I met someone very nice at Christianmingle and we chat on the phone ...
Sometimes I wonder why I have not found someone yet, why I've never even dated. I have a strong desire to love nurture and care for someone. to bring joy and love and comfort into her life, exc...
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by free_as_a_bird on 12/10/09
While sometimes I think it would be nice to BE married already, in general, I'm just not there yet. While my sister and 2/3 of my closest female friends, and many of my other acquaintances are ...
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by free_as_a_bird on 12/07/09
When do you decide it is time to go from dating and taking it to the next step? That is how many dates and/or how many months?
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by JJ4Christ1990 on 11/23/09
Just wondering what you guys thought. Recently my pastor's son who got married only 6 months ago (and started dating his wife only 6 months before that) announced that they're going to have...
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by vanillapudding83 on 11/19/09
