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A place for Christian singles to meet and talk.
What men want v.s. what women want
Posted by Calmador on Sep 07
Round 1 FIGHT! lol So in short I think men want to be needed, respected and admired... and women want to be loved and feel protect/safe/secure? Really the question should be what G-d wants? I'l...
160 views, 4 comments, last comment by Jemila on Dec 08
How to meet Christian girls at my age
Posted by Ray on 11/27/10
I know this board is shutting down soon so I don't know how many responses I'll get to this but I want to share what I'm going through and see if anyone can help me. So I'm 31 years...
567 views, 7 comments, last comment by Calmador on Aug 25
Single Guys Needing Help?
www.youtube.com/watch
Posted by EastWind on 11/09/10
Song of Solomon Pickup Lines!
157 views, 1 comment, last comment by iambren on 11/09/10
Waiting on God through modern technology
Posted by Manchua on 10/31/10
I recently had a conversation with a friend of mine at church who is familiar with my situation and the pain I'm going through. I mentioned that that I had been searching for a wife using Chris...
309 views, 9 comments, last comment by Obewan on 01/01/11
Short males :p
Posted by GuitarFreak on 10/15/10
So I'm forever the same height I was in 8th grade (genetically there wasn't much room for being tall haha) A comment a friend (that I hadn't seen since 2nd grade) made on facebook got m...
281 views, 10 comments, last comment by kytriya on 10/25/10
Want money? Sign at the ex!
Posted by iambren on 10/10/10
I have a house. My exwife has a house. Money for both of us is tight and one day we started adding up all the $ we would save if we were remarried, wow! She said--"we have enough love between t...
187 views, 1 comment, last comment by kytriya on 10/25/10
I dont want to be married!!
Posted by Yalith on 09/05/10
After discussing marraige with a friend of mine.... I am realizing that I still feel like I dont want to be married, but I want to be single and love Jesus for my whole life. Does it sound like Im ...
195 views
I dont want to be married!!
Posted by Yalith on 09/05/10
After discussing marraige with a friend of mine.... I am realizing that I still feel like I dont want to be married, but I want to be single and love Jesus for my whole life. Does it sound like Im ...
1240 views, 35 comments, last comment by Jemila on 11/25/10
In need of some encouragement, feeling kinda alone.
Posted by KateE05 on 08/11/10
Okay, here is my dealio. I'm a 23 year old, young woman who has decided to wait until marriage to have sex. I've made this decision a long time ago, when I was 16. It is something that I wi...
766 views, 17 comments, last comment by ayden on 10/09/10
is this ok
Posted by Yalith on 07/15/10
I have a guy friend, and he is very touchy-feely. I'm just wondering if this is ok. Only, he touches my arm lightly, or my back, and when we were sitting at a table in church with lots of peopl...
1211 views, 35 comments, last comment by free_as_a_bird on 09/08/10
Showing affection
Posted by free_as_a_bird on 07/03/10
Okay so this is just random nonsense that happened to be floating around in my mind tonight! I've never had much in the way of positive physical touch from friends and family (and by physical t...
505 views, 10 comments, last comment by free_as_a_bird on 07/11/10
purity
Posted by Yalith on 06/19/10
I'm thinking about purity. Total purity in the heart and mind and body. Maybe sometimes, (I'm speaking for the women here), we are waiting, for a handsome, kind, generous, man, to complete ...
505 views, 14 comments, last comment by lingonberrydude on 06/30/10
Facing life alone ... is it tough?
Posted by free_as_a_bird on 05/25/10
Hi everyone! I recently had an experience which made me realise just how much I want a loving relationship to form part of my life and how difficult I have really found spending all of these years ...
1142 views, 31 comments, last comment by free_as_a_bird on 09/08/10
Some encouragement for us all
Posted by lingonberrydude on 05/18/10
Lately the story of Hannah in I Samuel 1 has been a means through which God has given me great comfort related to the desire of my heart (since I'm posting this on the singles site--you can pro...
730 views, 24 comments, last comment by lingonberrydude on 07/21/10
Who Should Make The First Move?
Posted by Provision on 05/17/10
When pursuing someone for a date, who should make the first move, the man or the woman?
422 views, 9 comments, last comment by lingonberrydude on 05/19/10
Mid-Life Crisis at 45 and never been married
Posted by kytriya on 04/19/10
Oxymoron...can Single people actually have a mid-life crisis? I thought only people who married and had affairs had these things. No, those are the non-believers, or Beleivers who succumbed to temp...
265 views, 4 comments, last comment by kytriya on 04/22/10
Out of my league...
Posted by Duckie on 04/05/10
I wonder: how long will I be waiting for another significant other because I like men that are out of my league? I've noticed that men in Church have much higher standards than men out in the w...
338 views, 18 comments, last comment by Hawkwing74 on 04/14/10
How long have you been waiting?
Posted by Duckie on 04/05/10
How long have you been waiting to get married?
1221 views, 38 comments, last comment by kytriya on 10/31/10
Rehash: Boy not Girl
www.cnn.com/2010/OPINION/03/23/brizendine.male.bra...
Posted by iambren on 03/25/10
I thought this article was spot on and explained a lot. What is your reaction?
201 views, 2 comments, last comment by dramaqueen on 03/29/10
christianmingle.com
Posted by LadyInWaiting on 03/08/10
Just wondering, have any of you ever made any good friendships on a site like this?...not really talking of anything else romantic or anything, because I don't really believe in matchmaking sit...
1325 views, 36 comments, last comment by Manchua on 09/26/10
8 year old Explanation of God
Posted by Jim on 03/08/10
Little Boy's Explanation of God THIS IS FABULOUS!!! It was written by an 8-year-old named Danny Dutton, who lives in Chula Vista , CA . He wrote it for his third grade homework assignment, to &...
289 views, 7 comments, last comment by eagleswings on 03/12/10
Just need to vent...
Posted by Duckie on 03/03/10
My engagement and relationship ended a short time ago. My parents forbid me to even talk to him because he was emotionally abusive. I was also co-dependant, having premarital sex, and compromising ...
368 views, 9 comments, last comment by Jemila on 04/24/10
Cute video: First Kiss At Wedding
www.youtube.com/watch
Posted by LadyInWaiting on 03/02/10
As someone who is also saving my first kiss for my husband on my wedding day, I thought this video was adorable... The pastor's line was hilarious: "Well...practice makes perfect!!" Hah...
612 views, 34 comments, last comment by LadyInWaiting on 03/10/10
What's a guy to do?
Posted by TiredOfSilence on 02/01/10
Ok so this is a common problem for guys and may even be discussed on here elsewhere but it is something I have never found a good solution for. I would specifically appreciate female input. How doe...
237 views, 9 comments, last comment by free_as_a_bird on 03/07/10
A story of frustrated singleness
Posted by Amber on 01/25/10
Hello all! So, yesterday I got home from church did some homework, and then started being my hopeless romantic self and praying to God for patience in waiting on His timing of getting married and a...
155 views, 5 comments, last comment by Amber on 01/26/10
A movie with a good point for singles...
Posted by LadyInWaiting on 01/21/10
So I watched this movie last night, “He’s Just Not That Into You”. I won’t recommend it because there was a LOT of stuff in it that I didn’t care for…one of them was that it’s big on promoting gays...
289 views, 15 comments, last comment by Busto on 02/12/10
Love,what is it?
Posted by iambren on 01/13/10
What kind of love do you need to marry someone? I know all about the eros, phileo, agape types but is there a marriage love that must be present before one marries. Can you lose it? Can you get it ...
486 views, 49 comments, last comment by iambren on 02/12/10
Has anybody been where I'm at?(in terms of relationships)
Posted by KateE05 on 01/11/10
Alright, so I know this is the singles forum, but it seemed the best place to put this. I hope you guys can give me some advice or just..."listen"(read). I guess this is more of a vent. And...
288 views, 8 comments, last comment by Rob123 on 03/22/10
girls and guys
Posted by Yalith on 01/06/10
Over the past week I have been hanging out with a Christian guy friend. We call each other bro and sis (he's 23, I'm 27). We spent a lot of time praying alone in my car. Doing spiritual war...
342 views, 22 comments, last comment by Jemila on 02/28/10
The differences between Men and Women
Posted by Calmador on 01/05/10
The exceptions are exceptions... sometimes people are born in certain environments that change them and make them exceptions... I have a few friend girls that are tomboys and I've talked to the...
312 views, 41 comments, last comment by JJ4Christ1990 on 01/17/10
It's so unfair...
Posted by iambren on 12/31/09
...to be a man. In reading a book about the science of gender I see this: “Just ask men and women how often they think about sex. What you find in a large population is that the average for men is ...
325 views, 43 comments, last comment by iambren on 01/07/10
Just wanna introduce myself
Posted by Jim on 12/28/09
Hello I just want to introduce myself for now. I am a 49 year old divorced male. But I do have some health issues so Im really only looking for christian friends for now. So if anyone wants to talk...
145 views, 14 comments, last comment by Jim on 01/05/10
Over-critical Married People
shine.yahoo.com/channel/sex/10-things-husbands-sho...
Posted by LadyInWaiting on 12/27/09
Stuff like this really IRKS me. We single people have been waiting a very long time to be married...and it annoys the living daylights out of us when married people gripe and complain about their ...
287 views, 57 comments, last comment by Jemila on 12/31/09
I like women the way they are but....
Posted by Calmador on 12/22/09
I love women, they're wonderful creatures :3 hell I like women so much that if I could marry more then one, I would, out of love honest. I can name a handful of girls but they might possibly st...
308 views, 49 comments, last comment by free_as_a_bird on 01/03/10
Learning to Love
Posted by TiredOfSilence on 12/08/09
Sometimes I wonder why I have not found someone yet, why I've never even dated. I have a strong desire to love nurture and care for someone. to bring joy and love and comfort into her life, exc...
96 views, 3 comments, last comment by free_as_a_bird on 12/10/09