I had the same thing happen to me that happened to your Mom. Waaay back when banks were just beginning to use ATMs I went to take $20 out of my account, hit the zero too many times and took out $200. The bank was closed and by the time I got the money redeposited it was just enough to mess things up. Haven't had an overdraft since; it's way too expensive!
To me though having overdraft doesn't mean you're a bad money manager any more then having car insurance means you're a bad driver. Even the best drivers who strive to avoid accidents can have things go wrong every once in a while and when they do it's smart to be covered.
Leo
I would say if it happens once or twice no. Things happen it has happened to me before. However if this is a constant occurance then I would have to say yes they are bad money managers.
I agree. I've had to use my overdraft account before (it's overdraft protection, so there are no fees, which is nice). I think it's good for unexpected expenses. A few weeks ago, Jason and I had to write a check as ernest money for the house we're buying. That was a chunk of money that we ended up paying a lot sooner than we thought we'd have to. So, it took some out of my overdraft. ::shrugs::
Actually, a month ago I noticed that I was using overdraft much more frequently than I liked. Since then, I've gotten a lot better about keeping track of my money, and it doesn't happen anymore! 
'People with overdrafts are bad money managers'
Do you agree?
I would say if it happens once or twice no. Things happen it has happened to me before. However if this is a constant occurance then I would have to say yes they are bad money managers.
but my wife and i worked it out, and now she budgets the balance, and i don't get any money. haha...
I have considered that as well- I just don't like dealing with money-orders!
Not that it's really a label. If i did overdraft something by 3 cents, I managed my money poorly. Whether by accident or by ignorance, if i truly overdrafted, i did manage the money poorly.
But again - it's not a clinical diagnosis. if you broke it, fix it.
It's interesting to see how Check 21 (effective 10/28/04) is affecting banking services. It was touted as an easier way for banks to speed up business by cutting down on the paper trail, but the actual effect it's had on the public is to make deductions from one's account almost instantaneous. At my husband's job, they were counseled to assume that the moment they submit a check to a vendor, the money has been deducted from their account. Check 21 affects the people who write checks before payday, thinking that "the money will be in the bank tomorrow." With this new procedure, that check has the potential to bounce because it could be deducted the day it's written, not a day or two later
I found out about this REAL fast!
I work for a VERY small non-profit org.(at this point I am the only employee). Because of some problems in the past with the foundation's account, my Board director deposits my pay into my account (but not 'direct deposit'). My last deposit was made on a Fri., the bank (theirs) shows that there was money in the account, my bank processes it with 'Check 21' on Fri., determines there is NOT funds in the debiting account, and places a 15 day hold- ON MY PAYCHECK! The Foundation's bank recieves check for processing on Mon., and pays it without ado. Their records show this as the ONLY presentation of the check, with no problems attached. MY bank, on the other hand, continues to hold the funds, even when contacted that the check has already been paid, my 'auto-pays' get OD-charges, and I accrue late charges on my rent. So, who is at fault here? Me? The foundation? The 'System'? It all depends which side of the line you are standing on. From my position, it looks like something that person-to-person contact, human interaction, could have avoided. In the 7 years that I worked in banking (granted, quite a few years ago) we would have made phone contact, listened, and handled the situation accordingly. It seems that, in the pursuit of 'quicker, easier', we lose one of the most essential, basic aspects of our creation- relationship. As with auto-checkouts, automated phone services, and so many other 'new tech.' advances, when the human-element is removed, so is the ability to interact in the manner which God has created us to. It is very sad.
Am I a bad money manager? Well, I admit, I am not the best. Living on a VERY limited income, my account frequently is down to pennies (literally) at the end of the month. But I work hard at not being a 'Bad' money manager. You would not know this by looking at my account.
I apoligize, I have gone off topic and ran on and on to boot. But thanks for listening. I will try not to do it again. YSIC, Pam
One time my mom wrote a check to Sears for a payment of $50. When the cashier ran it through the cash register, she hit $500. The bank cashed it for the amount electronically placed on the back of the check, rather than for the amount my mom had written it for....checks bounced, deposits were taken to cover bounced check fees, more checks bounced before she got a statement from the bank. It turned into a huge mess, with Sears finally making restitution. If one were to judge the situation simply by appearances, my mom would have looked like an incredibly bad money manager...when the truth is so far from that, it's laughable.
It's interesting to see how Check 21 (effective 10/28/04) is affecting banking services. It was touted as an easier way for banks to speed up business by cutting down on the paper trail, but the actual effect it's had on the public is to make deductions from one's account almost instantaneous. At my husband's job, they were counseled to assume that the moment they submit a check to a vendor, the money has been deducted from their account. Check 21 affects the people who write checks before payday, thinking that "the money will be in the bank tomorrow." With this new procedure, that check has the potential to bounce because it could be deducted the day it's written, not a day or two later.
kathyfrances
The most embarassing one I take full responsibility for was overdrafting by 61 cents. Cost me 33 bucks in fees.
I don't think i'm bad with money, but living from paycheck to paycheck has it's perils.
if you're the one overdrafting your account, you might want to go over your finances and see what's causing you to go over, and make adjustments. being a "bad money manager" isn't a clinical diagnosis. You can go from being a bad money manager to a good money manager. It just requires a little work, and some examination of where your money is going.
*has had many overdrafts*
Possibly...