Top 3 Turn-Ons and Turn Offs

Posted by lifehouse20 in singles on 10/11/06, 10 comments, 72 views

What are your top three turn ons and then top three turn offs? It doesnt matter if your a guy or a girl.

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savedin96

151 posts

since 01/08/03

savedin96 replied on 10/21/06

Turnoffs--
--Dishonesty of any kind
--Being more concerned with public opinion than anything else (probably top of the list)
--Being all "private"/refusing to open up about emotions and experiences

Turnons
--Being an open book
--Willingness to speak her mind whether or not it is politically correct, publicly popular, or what I want to hear
--This is gonna sound nerdy, but basic theological competence

peculiartreasure

1694 posts

since 08/15/06

peculiartreasure replied on 10/20/06

Turn Ons-

1. Laughter..
2. Heart for Jesus..
3. Kind to little children

Turn Offs-

1. Smoking, Drinking, Cussing.. Its all the same thing
2. Lying or not telling the truth
3. Vainess or Pride

rhemaword21

87 posts

since 11/18/05

rhemaword21 replied to redtree00 on 10/19/06

I'll have to say:
For turn offs

(1)immaturity
(2)lieing
(3)haughtyness

Turn ons

(1)a God chaser
(2)one who knows and applies God's word to his everyday life
(3)Thoughtfulness

redtree00

569 posts

since 09/09/04

redtree00 replied to palladin on 10/14/06

Yes, that is a concern. In fact that would by my number one turn on: unable to NOT laugh at his jokes!

TURN OFFS
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not laughing at my jokes :P

palladin

534 posts

since 02/10/06

palladin replied on 10/13/06

TURN OFFS
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vanity
rebelliousness
not laughing at my jokes :P

TURN ONS
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compassion for others
lady-like manners
sincerity

yngmom4

1856 posts

since 06/25/06

yngmom4 replied to eagleswings on 10/13/06

Since I'm married, I won't post a list, but my top turn on is...knowing my hubby is mine and mine alone

. You just can't top that

eagleswings

16694 posts

since 06/11/06

eagleswings replied to BlueEyedLivi on 10/12/06

Top three turn-offs:

Arrogant/Neo-macho

Insensitive/self-absorbed

Power-hungry/cruel

Top three turn-ons:

Intelligent/wise

Humorous/witty

Compassionate/giving/deeply spiritual

under His wings,

eagleswings

BlueEyedLivi

102 posts

since 09/07/06

BlueEyedLivi replied to songbird on 10/12/06

Top Turn Offs:
Deciet
Arrogance
Immaturity

Top Turn Ons:
Honesty
Kindness
Empathy

songbird

459 posts

since 09/20/06

songbird replied on 10/11/06

It's hard for me to say "top 3" over everything else because maybe I'm forgetting something, but I would have to say (I'm assuming that we are talking about a Christian):

Turn Offs:
1. Questionable integrity or motives
2. Dishonesty
3. Selfishness

Turn Ons:
1. Someone who is grounded, responsible and has ambitions in life that amount to more than just being a bump on a log.
2. Confidence
3. Chivalry

Nikki

Chauntel36

8828 posts

since 01/31/05

Chauntel36 replied on 10/11/06

TURN OFFS
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Lieing
Cheating
Stealing

TURN ONS
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A man who loves God and is not afraid to show it.
A man who is thoughtful.
A man whi is honest, regardless!!!!!

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